Disclaimer
ChildBe is not intended to be used as a diagnostic tool or as a replacement for psychiatric support (e.g., assessment, medication, therapy) when needed. If your child exhibits two or more behaviors from any group listed below, we recommend consultation with a pediatric psychiatrist.
Group A:
- Worrying about germs, getting sick, or dying
- Extreme fears about bad things happening or doing something wrong
- Feeling that things have to be “just right”
- Disturbing and unwanted thoughts or images about hurting others
- Disturbing and unwanted thoughts or images of a sexual nature
- Excessive checking that the door is locked, that the oven is off, etc.
- Excessive washing and/or cleaning
- Repeating actions until they are “just right” or starting over again
- Ordering or arranging things
- Mental compulsions (excessive praying, mental reviewing, etc.)
- Frequent confessing or apologizing
- Saying lucky words or numbers
- Excessive reassurance seeking (e.g., always asking, “Are you sure I’m going to be okay?”)
- Symptoms might develop seemingly overnight with a rapid change in behavior and mood and sudden appearance of severe anxiety.
Group B:
- Avoids eye contact, and prefers to be alone
- Struggles with understanding other people’s feelings
- Has delayed language development, or remains nonverbal
- Repeats words or phrases over and over (echolalia)
- Gets upset by minor changes in routine or surroundings
- Has highly restricted interests
- Performs repetitive behaviors such as flapping, rocking, or spinning
- Has unusual and often intense reactions to sounds, smells, tastes, textures, lights, and/or colors
Group C:
- Has trouble staying focused, is easily distracted, or gets bored with a task before it’s completed
- Appears not to listen when spoken to
- Has difficulty remembering things and following instructions; doesn’t pay attention to details or makes careless mistakes
- Has trouble staying organized, planning ahead, and finishing projects
- Frequently loses or misplaces homework, books, toys, or other items
- Constantly fidgets and squirms
- Has difficulty sitting still, playing quietly, or relaxing
- Moves around constantly; often runs or climbs inappropriately
- Talks excessively
- May have a quick temper or “short fuse”
- Acts without thinking
- Guesses, rather than taking time to solve a problem; blurts out answers in class without waiting to be called on or to hear the whole question
- Intrudes on other people’s conversations or games
- Often interrupts others; says the wrong thing at the wrong time
- Inability to keep powerful emotions in check, resulting in angry outbursts or temper tantrums
Group D:
- Withdrawal from family activities and hobbies
- Change in overall attitude or personality with no other identifiable cause
- Changes in friends and/or hangouts; sudden avoidance of old crowd; reluctance to talk about new friends
- Friends who are known drug users
- Changes in activities or hobbies
- Drop in grades at school or performance at work
- Skipping school or being late for school
- Difficulty in paying attention; forgetfulness
- General lack of motivation, energy, and/or self-esteem
- An “I don't care” attitude
- Sudden oversensitivity, temper tantrums, or resentful behavior; moodiness, irritability, or nervousness; silliness or giddiness; paranoia
- Excessive need for privacy; being unreachable; secretive or suspicious behavior; change in personal grooming habits
- Loss of appetite, increase in appetite, or any changes in eating habits; unexplained weight loss or gain
- Slowed or staggering walk
- Poor physical coordination
- Inability to sleep; awakening at unusual times
- Unusual laziness; falling asleep in class
- Red, watery eyes; pupils larger or smaller than usual
- Blank stare
- Cold, sweaty palms
- Shaking hands
- Puffy face
- Blushing or paleness
- Smell of substance on breath, body, or clothes
- Extreme hyperactivity; excessive talkativeness
- Perpetual runny nose; hacking cough
- Needle marks on lower arm, leg, or top of feet
- Nausea, vomiting, or excessive sweating; tremors or shakes of hands, feet, or head; irregular heartbeat
Group E:
- Feeling down, sad, empty, hopeless, irritable most of the day or most days of the week
- Little interest or pleasure in doing things
- Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep, or sleeping too much
- Feeling tired or having little energy
- Poor appetite or overeating
- Feeling bad about themselves, like they are a failure or have let themselves or their family down
- Trouble concentrating on things such as reading or watching television
- Moving or speaking so slowly that other people have noticed, or being so fidgety and restless that they have been moving around a lot more than usual
- Thoughts that they would be better off dead or of hurting themselves in some way
Group F:
- A repetitive or persistent pattern of behavior in which the basic rights of others or major age-appropriate societal norms are violated
- Often bullies, threatens, or intimidates others
- Often initiates physical fights
- Has used a weapon that can cause serious physical harm to others
- Has been physically cruel to people or animals
- Has stolen while confronting a victim, steals trivial items without confronting the victim
- Has forced someone into sexual activity
- Has set fire intentionally to someone else’s property or destroyed another’s property purposefully in some other way
- Breaking into someone’s house or car
- Often lies to obtain goods/favors or to avoid obligations
- Has run away from home (overnight) more than once (before age 13) and/or has stayed away for a long period of time
- Behaviors that negatively impact their social, academic, or occupational functioning
Group G:
- Exposure to actual or threatened death, serious injury, or sexual violence in one (or more) of the following ways: directly experiencing, witnessing in person, learning that the traumatic events occurred to a close family member or friend, experiencing repeated or extreme exposure to traumatic events
- Recurrent and distressing memories of the trauma
- Recurrent, distressing dreams in which the content of dreams are related to the traumatic event
- Dissociative reactions (flashbacks)
- Intense or prolonged distress at exposure to things that remind them of trauma
- Significant physiological reactions to internal or external cues of trauma
- Persistent avoidance of things associated with the traumatic events (people, places, activities, objects, and or efforts to avoid distressing memories, thoughts, or feelings)
- Negative change in mood and cognitions (inability to remember important aspects of events; persistent exaggerated negative beliefs or expectations about themselves; persistent distorted thoughts about the cause or consequences of the events; persistent fear, horror, guilt, anger, or shame; decreased interest in activities; persistent feelings of being detached from others; persistent inability to experience happiness, satisfaction, loving feelings)
- Marked changes associated with traumatic events (two or more of the following: irritable behavior and angry outbursts, reckless or self destructive behavior, hypervigilance, exaggerated startle response, problems with concentration, sleep disturbance)
- Depersonalization (persistent feelings of being detached from — and as if an outside observer of — one’s thoughts, one’s body; feeling as if in a dream; feeling a sense of unreality of self or body or of time moving slowly)
- Derealization (persistent experiences of unreality of surroundings — dreamlike, distant, distorted)